yosselyn

Ok…how many people know how stressfull it is to be married,maintain a house hold,deal with kids well i do.Im pretty sure everyone has been to the point were you want to strangle eachother and start to wonder to yourself where did we go wrong what happened to that feeling we used to get in our stomach….like we had little butterflies all over the place.its so stressfull having to be in a relationship for so long and not kill eachother…sowe wonder to ourselves what to do….its hard to be at home taking care of the house which is so hard to do with a toddler,cook,wash,have time for yourself its stressfull and im not saying that guys dont get stressed too..but come on now tha majority of guys are not know for cleaners it wont hurt to pick up or take out the trash once in a while…yeah you work,you bring the income in the household but there is many girl that try to help its not much but its something i guess its the thought that counts…im not making it seem like guys suck but have you guys ever thought about the couples that both have to work…now what happens to the kid both mom and dad work right?…they both bring income right?..so whose in charge of the kids?…mom or dad?…in the majority of cases its mom….so if a mom can still work bring some income too…a dad can do that too..its not hard!Ive heard many times that a mom is the only person that knows their kids every need and no one does it better(hmmmm True)…in some cases yes…but what about the single dads…I know single dads with no help of a moms role model and they probably know more than a mom knows…they know how to cook better than i can…lol…but basically what im saying is that it doesnt matter wether your a mom or a dad you can know as much about your kid equally if you take the time and spend time with them you will know what their every need is..work with eachother dont let anyone get between you guys yes take in opinions but always remember you are a couple and no one knows you better than eachother if people say something let it go…thats them!!!!they dont know what you guys feel for eachother…just work through it…but not one person higher than the other work at the same pace.(Guys listen to your girl understand her give her time for herself trust me you have no idea how stressfull it is)(Girls try to help him out with the income understand how hard it is to have to pay rent and bills)..sooooo what ever problem it is that u have work on it and dont let anyone give you ideas be yourself…think for yourself…have an arragement between both of you…no matter what anybody says….Remember its your marrige not theirs…Belive me its hard specially when your my age im bearly 19..now imagine people who are older im not saying its easy but their more mature about it they understand the meaning of marrige they know that its their new family and they make the rules and they make the arrangements on how they wanna live..they still have problems thats normal everyone does.well thats it for..im not gaining up on guys or girls….take charge of your family get your stuff and go remember their is always gonna be some one who has opinions on what they dont like but remeber its up to the both of you to decide not other people otherwise what are you doing together if your gonna let family or friends make desicions for your household not cool right!!!:)